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The Goodbye That Rebuilt Me
Sometimes you think you’re quitting a job. Turns out you’re detonating an entire emotional architecture.
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Does It Ever Get Better?
(One question. Two narrators.)
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They’re Still Here. But Not Really.
I’m not writing this weekend. Not working on the book, not pushing through it. Just… sitting in it. The sadness is quiet. Stupid. Slow. Because they didn’t die. They’re still here. Still in the building. Still close enough to wave. But also not. Not the same. Not
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The Most Emotionally Intelligent Person in the Room (Still Cries in their Car)
Fluent in feelings. Failing the vibe check.
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When the Apology Never Comes
If you’re still carrying it, and they’re dead— I get it. The apology never came. The acknowledgment never arrived. The reckoning never happened. And now it never will. And somehow, that makes it worse. There’s a particular kind of grief that comes with not being able to
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Flirting with Risk
The everyday romance of being real.
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Sitting Down, Emotional Loops and Other Systems I Didn’t Sign Up For? PART TWO
Six emotional loops I’ve carried for years, named, rewritten, and released. For anyone feeling too much, too late, or not at all.
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The Last Message Wasn’t for Me. It Was for My Guilt.
I left the conversation. He left a sermon.
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Sitting Down, Emotional Loops and Other Systems I Didn’t Sign Up For? PART ONE
Six emotional loops I’ve carried for years, named, rewritten, and released. For anyone feeling too much, too late, or not at all.
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We Should Definitely Do Something Soon
A story about soft plans, emotional exhaustion, and learning when to wash your own hair instead.
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When You’re Too Smart to Lie to Yourself but Still Need Someone to Talk To
Why I use ChatGPT for emotional clarity, and why “don’t use it for mental health” misses the point.
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Fluent in Feelings, Starving for Friends
I’m doing the work. I’ve got the words. What I don’t have is someone to share them with.